I am Eram, a 35 year old Dominant male. I started my journey of sexual exploration at a very young age. This journey has brought me to where I am today. It’s far from over, and I still don’t know my final destination. But finding my way is a lot easier now.

It’s hard for me to pinpoint the moment I “started” with BDSM, but it must have been around the age of 21. Or maybe that was the time I realized my desires had a place under the big BDSM-umbrella (I spent years believing I was a potential rapist or psychopath). It was about that time I started worrying less about my desires. Whether they were normal or not, they were My desires. And I wasn’t the only one. Over the years I’ve been involved in BDSM in periods (mostly had to do with my partners).

About 3 years ago it became evident that I am a Dominant. Not always, and not towards just anyone. In every day life I’m very easy going, sensitive about other peoples feelings and even obliging. But also a know-it-all, cynic and a real pest. Annoying every now and than, sometimes melancholic.

I’m not quite sure what a born Dominant is, but I sure ain’t one. But with the right sub, everything falls in it is place. It’s than that I can be who I prefer to be. Truly Me.