Everybody is invited to join The Living Room! No matter where you live, what your kink is, or if you are Dom or sub, you are welcome to join. The Living Room is the place for your random thoughts and feelings, shout outs, expression of boredom or other less formal conversation. Anything goes really. And if that doesn't entertain you, have a look at The Jukebox, maybe there is something in there that can cheer you up.

I am Eram, a 35 year old Dominant male. I started my journey of sexual exploration at a very young age. This journey has brought me to where I am today. It’s far from over, and I still don’t know my final destination. But finding my way is a lot easier now.

It’s hard for me to pinpoint the moment I “started” with BDSM, but it must have been around the age of 21. Or maybe that was the time I realized my desires had a place under the big BDSM-umbrella (I spent years believing I was a potential rapist or psychopath). It was about that time I started worrying less about my desires. Whether they were normal or not, they were My desires. And I wasn’t the only one. Over the years I’ve been involved in BDSM in periods (mostly had to do with my partners).

About 3 years ago it became evident that I am a Dominant. Not always, and not towards just anyone. In every day life I’m very easy going, sensitive about other peoples feelings and even obliging. But also a know-it-all, cynic and a real pest. Annoying every now and than, sometimes melancholic.

I’m not quite sure what a born Dominant is, but I sure ain’t one. But with the right sub, everything falls in it is place. It’s than that I can be who I prefer to be. Truly Me.